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Expert witness rules for life: The verdict is in..."no" is more than sufficient

Jan 30, 2025

You’re prepping for your side gig as an expert witness. The attorney not-so-gently reminds you to use your 2-word vocabulary… expert witnesses on the stand are most powerful with a simple "yes" or "no." 

No explanations. No stories. No justifications. We know, it’s so tempting to overexplain how you justify your diagnostic stance.

What if you approached your boundaries with the same limited vocabulary?

When we pile on explanations for our "no," we often invite others to challenge our choices. Each added detail becomes another point for negotiation, another crack in our boundary. 

Simple boundaries aren't just about being clear - they're about being kind. When you give a direct "no," you're actually showing respect for the other person's time and emotional energy. No false hope, no need to analyze hidden meanings, no awkward follow-ups. They can move forward with confidence, just as you can.

Just as an expert witness serves justice best with clear answers, you serve both yourself and others best with clear boundaries.

You're the expert of your own life. Your "no" is enough.

 

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