Permission granted: Deserving is not a future version of you
What’s really holding you back from investing in something you want?
You work hard. You show up. You’ve built success through discipline and effort.
And yet sometimes, when it comes to yourself, you hesitate.
You wait for a milestone. A bigger win. A future version of you who is “more deserving.”
It’s subtle, but it’s there.The message that you shouldn’t do something just for your own enjoy...
What your hamstrings already know: Comfort evolves after you begin
Most things feel uncomfortable… until they don’t.
The first time you speak up in a meeting and hear your own voice shake a little.
The first workout after a long break when your body is politely asking, “Excuse me, what is happening?” (We’re looking at you, hamstrings!)
The first honest conversation where your heart is pounding and you’re tempted to soften the truth.
The first step ...
But I'm right though: help for those moments when digging in feels necessary
Most conflicts don’t escalate because people disagree. They escalate because someone (or everyone) needs to be “right”.
Being right feels clarifying in the moment. It feels like control. It feels like safety.
But it usually shuts down connection. Once we move into proving, defending, or correcting, the conversation narrows quickly.
Curiosity does something different. Curiosity sounds like want...